My favourite Pleasure Toys & Tools for Women
Access Patricia's personal favourite pleasure toys and tools for women after exploring over 400 as the multi award winning Pleasure Toy Queen and pleasure educator - from 2025.
Patricia
Welcome beautiful Pleasure being,
I get asked about recommendations for pleasure toys and tools for women all the time! So here are my 2025 favourite vibrators, dildos, kinky tools and more - for you! I will add Discount codes for you to save if I have any available (affiliate links might be used at no additional costs for you).
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Favourite Vibrators
Tracy’s Dog Swirlii
I experienced my very first internal orgasm with Swirlii. Use Code TOYQUEEN to save at Tracy’s Dog.
Tracy’s Dog OG 3
I experienced my very first multiple blended orgasms in a very short period of time with the OG 3. Use Code TOYQUEEN to save at Tracy’s Dog.
Vivifie Vindani (Spinner Vibrator)
An internal spinner feature that led to very pleasurable blended orgasms. You can use my Code TOYQUEEN to save at Vivifie (plus free international shipping).
We-Vibe Nova2
It was the toy I squirted with for the first time. You can get your We-Vibe Nova 2 Lovehoney with Code PLEASURELIT20 (worldwide), BeDaring with Code TRISHA (AUS only), Betty’s Toy Box with Code Trisha10 (US based, ship international), PeepShowToys with Code Trisha10 (US based, ship international) or WildSecrets with Code Trisha10 (AUS based, ship international)
Vibepad 2
Love this handsfree pleasure tool for all the sensations. You can get the Vibepad 2 from Lovehoney with Code PLEASURELIT20 (worldwide) or Betty’s Toy Box with Code Trisha10 (US based, ship international) or PeepShowToys with Code Trisha10 (US based, ship international)
LELO Sila
This is hands down my favourite go to pleasure toy for clitoral orgasms. It always gets me there. You can get your LELO Sila from PeepShowToys with Code Trisha10 (US based, ship international).
VVD Rider Desire
This one has been pleasurelit, especially gentle on the legs while still giving riding vibes. Use Code TOYQUEEN to save.
We-Vibe Ditto+
I love a vibrating butt plug. You can get the We-vibe Ditto+ from BeDaring with Code TRISHA (AUS only), Betty’s Toy Box with Code Trisha10 (US based, ship international) or PeepShowToys with Code Trisha10 (US based, ship international) or Lovehoney with Code PLEASURELIT20 (international based)
Lovehoney Lick Me Vibrating Pussy Pump with flicking tongue
I LOVE the flicking vibrating tongue with pussy pump combination - it is the closest feeling to being eaten out. Use Code PLEASURELIT20 to save at Lovehoney.
Discreet Pleasure Toys
Crave Pleasure Jewellery
I love my pleasure jewellery, especially when going out in public. I have the Vesper 2 necklace, the Tease ring and the handcuff bracelets. Use my link here to save at CRAVE.
We-Vibe Bloom
I love wearing those weighted and vibrating balls when I go out on a date or even when I go out shopping for some extra simulation. You can get the We-Vibe Bloom from Betty’s Toy Box with Code Trisha10 (US based, ship international) or PeepShowToys with Code Trisha10 (US based, ship international) or Lovehoney with Code PLEASURELIT20 (international based)
Dildos
NJoy Stainless Steel Wand/Dildo
This has made me squirt in a complete different way. Its not the penetration, but the actual pressure pointing that is extremly pleasurable to me. You can get the Njoy Pure Stainless Steel Wand from Lovehoney with Code PLEASURELIT20 (worldwide), Betty’s Toy Box with Code Trisha10 (US based, ship international) or PeepShowToys with Code Trisha10 (US based, ship international).
Black Mamba
When I crave a really filling experience, the Qutoys big, realistic looking and bendable Silicone Dildos are my right fit. Use Code PLEASURELIT to save at Qutoys.
Fun Factory The Boss 7.1 Dildo
You can get the Fun Factory The Boss 7.1 from WildSecrets with Code Trisha10 (AUS based, ship international) or PeepshowToys (use Code Trisha10 to save).
Glass Dildo
Can be used via both ends. Especially pleasurable for g-spot stimulation, deep internal pleasure and squirting. Also great for temperature play. You can get this one from Lovehoney with Code PLEASURELIT20 (worldwide).
Premium HiSmith Sex machine
This can be super fun. Requires some set up though. You can use Code TRISHA to save at Bedaring (AUS & NZ only)
Strap on harness with Dildo
Lovehoney with Code PLEASURELIT20 (worldwide)
Tomboii Double Penetration Strap on harness underwear (with bullet vibe pockets)
PeepshowToys (use Code Trisha10 to save)
Other pleasure items
Squirting Blankets
Using a waterproof luxury soft feeling blanket for pleasure has been an absolute game changer. The peace of being able to let fully goooo… You can get your Splashblanket with Code Trisha 10 at Splashblanket (AUS based, ship international) or get your Squirt blankets from Lovehoney (use Code PLEASURELIT20 to save), Betty’s Toy Box (use Code Trisha10 to save) and PeepshowToys (use Code Trisha10 to save)
Split Peach Boutique offers squirting blankets made with Bamboo. Use code Pleasurelit to save at Split Peach.
Deluxe Pleasure Chair
Oh my, so much fun using the chair and be able to reach in way like I wouldnt be able to otherwise. Can also be used in couples play. Use Code PLEASURELIT20 at Lovehoney (worldwide).
Pleasure Oils
Wildfire (Black) is one of my favourites using pure essential oils for their pleasure oils. It is such a sensual awakening portal to pleasure. You can use Code Pleasurelit10 to save at Wildfire.
YES Water-based organic lubricant
Use Code PLEASURELIT to save at YesOrganics Lubes
SLIQUID Lube
Sliquid has a range of lubes, including water-based, silicone based and organic ones! Use Code PLEASURELIT to save at Sliquid.
Tinkle Tongue
This is a saliva enhancer supplement that can be super fun for oral worships or anyone with a dry mouth. It increased my saliva quality and quality, making it extra wet and sloppy. You can use Code Pleasurelit to save at Twinkle Tongue.
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With love & pleasure,
Patricia
Pleasure Toy Queen Patricia
Pleasurelit®
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